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minds
This space is dead. I am still documenting my life in different formats, but even with events captured in images and words and feelings, you don’t see when things cross a line and turn into something...
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self, self, self
Self-love was something I had to consciously learn. It is easy to beat yourself up over something, feel guilty, feel like you have failed others and yourself. It wasn’t easy to overcome, but it is a...
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unknown
People have been asking if I’m okay. No, it isn’t just a question. It’s an assumption that I’m not, that I shouldn’t be. Should I? Shouldn’t I? I’m okay. People have been telling me how brave I am and...
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que sera sera
So normal to feel like you have so much to lose, that you end up not doing anything at all. The fear paralyses you; the thought of failure stops you from taking the next step. Are you getting closer to...
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insight
With mindfulness, we are willing to bear with the whole of life; with the excitement and the boredom, the hope and the despair, the pleasure and the pain, the fascination and the weariness, the...
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words can paint a thousand pictures
Why does it still come to a surprise to me when I realise how unemotionally responsive (emotionally unresponsive?) I can be. It’s not that I don’t feel feelings, I definitely do. I can pinpoint my...
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let’s talk about sex
Let’s not pretend that people don’t have pre-marital sex. Let’s acknowledge that there are quite a big number of unplanned parenthood, which subsequently leads to marriage. Let’s not talk about...
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2015
I should be ashamed that my domain is here solely for me to blog at the start of each year. But the fact that I just paid to renew it 2 days before expiry (I previously made the decision of saving on...
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small things
I’ve never thought much about my side projects. I’ve never talked much about them either. They have shaped me in little ways without my realisation. Lav and I started this in 2011 (oh my, that’s 5...
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Surrender
For the longest time, I’ve been working on feeling. Brene Brown’s talk on vulnerability really hit a spot, and I’ve come to learn more about myself and my defense mechanism. Logic and sense is...
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